Rebecca L. Martin, CPA

Have you ever noticed that little checkbox on your federal income tax return asking if you'd like to contribute $3 to the Presidential Election Campaign Fund? 🗳️

Checking it won't increase your taxes or reduce your refund. But where does that money actually go? And do presidential candidates even use it anymore?

The answers might surprise you. (And there's a fascinating connection to childhood cancer research.)

I looked at the history of the checkbox, where the money goes today, and why fewer taxpayers are checking it.

Plus, there's a poll! I want to know: Do you check the box?

Read the story and cast your vote:
https://www.taxgirl.com/2026/10/13/whats-that-presidential-election-campaign-fund-checkbox-on-your-tax-return/

Don’t sign up to personally pay or be in debt for your parents assisted living costs after they pass away!

If they have assets after they pass, these debts will be paid thru the probate process. If they have nothing or very little when they pass, these debts will be dismissed AS LONG AS you did not agree to pay them yourself. Be very careful with forms when entering your parents into assisted living.

Experts say Medicaid cuts could lead to more enforcement of filial responsibility laws, where you could be legally liable for unpaid bills. https://www.investigatetv.com/2026/10/05/why-this-law-could-leave-adult-children-paying-parents-medical-debt/

A private room in a nursing home now runs a median $355 a day, about $129,600 a year, according to CareScout's 2025 Cost of Care Survey. Admission packets sometimes try to make a son, daughter or spouse the backup payer for that bill.

For any nursing home that takes Medicare or Medicaid, federal rules forbid it. Under 42 CFR 483.15, the home cannot require, or even request, that a relative personally back the payment in order to admit someone, speed up admission or let them stay.

The wording is often less direct. Watch for "guarantor," "co-signer," "jointly responsible," "personally liable," or a "responsible party" who promises to pay. Guidance that federal inspectors began using in 2025 says any language that seeks to hold a third party personally responsible for the bill breaks the rule, even when the word guarantor never appears. That includes clauses making a relative liable for a late Medicaid application or for missing financial paperwork.

The rule covers every resident of a certified home, including people paying privately.

What the home can ask for is narrower. Someone with legal access to the resident's money, such as an agent under a power of attorney, a trustee or a representative payee, can be asked to sign a promise to pay from the resident's own income and assets, with no personal liability. Signing with the title, "agent for" the resident, keeps that line clear.

The same regulation bars a few other asks: waivers of the resident's rights, promises not to apply for Medicaid, and gifts or deposits as the price of entry for someone eligible for Medicaid. A separate rule says an arbitration agreement can never be a condition of admission, and it must allow 30 days to cancel after signing. A resident also cannot be discharged for nonpayment while a Medicaid application is pending.

The protection has edges. Assisted living, including memory care inside assisted living, runs under state law, where a co-signer clause in the contract can be enforceable. Around 30 states also have filial support laws that can make adult children help pay for a parent's care, and a Pennsylvania court used one in 2012 to hold a son liable for about $93,000 of his mother's nursing home bill. An agent who spends the resident's money on anything else can face claims too.

When the packet arrives, ask for it ahead of move-in day, cross out any line that puts your own money on the hook, initial the change and keep a copy. Every state has a long-term care ombudsman whose help is free and confidential, reachable through the Eldercare Locator at 1-800-677-1116.

Helping a parent into care does not require putting your own savings behind the bill.

Source: 42 CFR 483.15(a) and 483.70(m), eCFR current as of Sept. 24, 2026; CMS nursing home surveyor guidance QSO-25-12-NH (2025); CFPB and CMS joint letter on nursing home debt collection (Sept. 2022); CareScout 2025 Cost of Care Survey; Administration for Community Living.

Educational information only, not financial, tax, legal, or investment advice. Contract rules vary by state and facility type, so have an elder law attorney review any admission agreement you are unsure about.